Should Small Business Fear The Competition?


You will find top earners online that are earning fifty or
eighty thousand dollars a month and yet they fear competition.
It is a terrible way to live. We fear no competition, we fear
nothing in marketing. There are people that will try to
intimidate you, but you do not have to live in fear. You can
control what somebody tells you, you can walk away and not
listen, a thought comes to your mind and you are in control, you
can delete any thought you want. I will delete that thought and
it is gone. You can put a thought in your mind as fast as you
deleted something too.

Now here are some things that we use to go forward. Once you
delete the thought, and it is very important to delete the
thought, because if you do not delete it, it will just stay in
your mind, it will come back again producing fear. One thing is
that you also have to believe in yourself, you have to believe
that whatever you are going to do can get done. Books like Think
and Grow Rich point that out, you have to produce a thought and
think and believe it is real for it to happen. Fear, false
expectation appearing real in your mind is a false expectation
of something that has not even happened yet.

Most of the time, take swimming for example, if you have never
jumped off a diving board before and all of a sudden you have
this fear of jumping off, you jumped off, you will probably say
to yourself, you know that was not that bad. Or you go from
making two or three thousand dollars a month to ten thousand or
more a month and you say well, that was easy, that was not that
hard. I should have done that a long time ago. It holds you back
in life. People that have children have all kinds of fears, of
their kids drowning, fear of them getting hurt, fear of them
with water. I was never like that. We always had our children in
the pool at an early age.

A lot of people get very nervous about things like that, they
say you should not take your child in the pool because he is
just a baby. Well, I am not fearful of anything but there are
safety mechanisms that you can use. You also do not want your
child to grow having that certain fear. I have some good friends
that will not let their children go in the pool, and their
children start developing fears at an early age. Children will
develop many fears at an early age and guess who it comes from,
their parents because of the fears that the parents have.

So if you can break past that barrier, it is a dream killer, it
steals your dreams living in fear, living in fear of when your
next paycheck is coming in, when the next dollar is that you are
going to make, whether it is online or from a job. It can
destroy a life. But how do we get past that, like I said before.
One, you have to delete that thought out of your mind, get it
out of your mind. It cannot stay there, because you will dwell
on it and you will still have this fear. Two, you have to look
forward, you should really put a new thought in there, and you
can do it. If you have this fear about creating a lead capture
page and you cannot do html or you cannot find a person to help
you do a lead capture page, just delete it out of you mind. You
can do a lead capture page.

You can get another person to do it for you, you know what you
want, or perhaps you do not know what you want on there, but you
do need some help. Well, find another person to do that too.
Then maybe a new fear will creep into your mind, where do I find
this person. There are tons of places online, maybe forums, you
can certainly find people to help you there, or there are other
sites, elance.com or guru.com, go in there and just post to the
people of what you are looking for and people will post back to
you saying, hey, I can do this for you and this is what I will
charge you. Then you come to a new fear, well, how do I know
which person to go with, how do I know I can trust this person,
or are they going to do what they say they are going to do. Here
is a new fear, what do you do, delete, delete, delete.

Pick the one that you have a good feeling about, your gut
instinct, or what your heart says to do and go with it. Some
people worry about what about this program, should I join this
program or should I stay away from it, or how is the program
doing. I would just recommend that you go with your feeling
again, what is your heart telling you, you know if it feels good
or not. Fear destroys marriages and other things. Fearful of
whether or not my spouse is cheating on me, fearful or whether
or not my spouse is going to leave me. You can live in fear if
your spouse is going to leave you throughout your whole
marriage, that is a terrible way to live.

If your spouse is going to leave you it is going to happen
whether you like it or not. So you really cannot control it, so
do not live in that fear. There are all types of things in life
that steal dreams. It literally kills them. It is sad that it
happens. Everybody has fears, but you need to control your mind.
Fears creep up but just get rid of them and put something
positive in your mind and move forward. If we did not do that we
would not be here today. I know some people that if they did not
get over their fear they would not be making fifty thousand a
month, or thirty thousand, or twenty thousand or a hundred
thousand dollars a month or more. Fears prevent you from taking
the next step, fears prevent you from learning more, fears
prevent a lot of things.